3 Reasons why Dressing for yourself is the sexiest way to go

Hey, Gorgeous!

Yesterday was my 5th wedding anniversary, my goodness!! Where did the time go!?

Don’t worry I’m not going through my wedding album with you; that would be boring.

Ever since I’ve been with Tomas, my husband, I notice my style has evolved a lot.

Now, I love how I dress, and I feel super comfortable on my skin.

Nowadays I focus first on loving my looks, because I know if I love it, he will. Why? Because he loves me the way I am, right? So, it doesn’t make sense dressing for who he is!

The way you style yourself is another fabulous way of expressing your personality and sending lots of messages to others about you.

Remember this my friend, in this lifetime you only get one chance to be YOU; You might as well use it and show the world the amazing human being you are!

Today I'm telling you:

3 reasons why the most attractive and interesting women are the ones who dress for themselves, and not for men's eyes.

1 - Confidence, confidence, and more confidence.

Being able to wake up in the morning and choosing your outfit, the one which makes you feel over the top. That’s a way of expressing confidence. That’s the most attractive outfit you can wear. And that’s hot!!! Your partner will definitely appreciate it.One thing is wearing a little black dress, and another is wearing a little black dress with CONFIDENCE!

Tweet, Tweet!

The way you style yourself is a fabulous way of expressing your personality and sending lots of messages to others about you.

2 - Project who you are, not what they want you to be.

After many years working with people of all backgrounds, I can tell you one thing for sure: There’s not better style than the one that matches your own Fabulous and Unique Personality.

Let me give you an example. Let’s think of Oprah Winfrey: She is a wonderful and powerful woman.

To my eyes, she has a Romantic and Alluring Personality Style that shines the most when she wears outfits that honor it.

That means, she looks amazing in fabrics that follow her natural curves, shapes that harmonize with her round features and especially dresses that enhance her femininity.

Don’t you think she just looks stunning and incredibly attractive in these images!?


Another great example. The super famous blogger:

Leandra Medine a.k.a. Man Repeller> She’s a very successful blogger that started her own brand with the idea of dressing in clothes that are not liked by men (with a little bit of irony).

She’s got this Natural/Creative Personality Style that I just love how she expresses it. She barely wears any makeup, her hair looks barely touched. She wears a lot of straight lines in her patterns and stiff fabrics that harmonize with her natural body shape and face features. She’s got this ability to make of a very casual garment a special chic one, just because that’s her own unique personality.


Now, after looking at these unique and powerful women; aren’t you just in love with them!? Well, so are a lot of men, that I know for sure.

3 - Men like women who have their own criteria; at least the kind of men you and I want ;)

I’m not only married to the most amazing man, but I have lots of boy-friends.

One thing I can tell you, they sure know when a woman has her own standards and follows them; that's the hottest quality a woman can have.

It doesn’t matter if you’re wearing a trumpet on top of your head… If you’re called to wear it, I tell you, you’ll look the most attractive you could ever imagine, because you'll feel proud of showing it to the world, and that, my dear it's super attractive.

But first, make sure you de-clutter your brain with all those so-called “sexy woman” standards and stand for who you truly are my gorgeous friend!

Now, it's your turn: Did you enjoy today's post!? Did you have any aha! moments!? I would love hearing about it. Please post your comment below!

Today’s article is dedicated to my other half, my partner in crime my unconditional supporter. Who believed I was the most beautiful bride 5 years ago, just because I was wearing a dress that screamed “alma” everywhere. Ok... I'll show you one wedding picture ;P


“When someone shows you who they are,
believe them the first time.”

Maya Angelou

Much love and fabulousness,


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